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Ask A Question About Islam And Muslims

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Can a wife refuse her husband's second marriage if he denied her marital rights, had an affair, is unwilling to live with her, and she also wants separation before he remarries?
Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi
There are conditions in Islam for those who need more than one wife, with out fulfilling these conditions, they are not allowed but just one wife as we read in Quran (But if you fear that you shall not deal justly with more than one wife, then just one wife) (Sura Annisaa', verse 3).
If the husband is dealing with his wives justly and giving every wife her rights equally, none of wives has a right to object on his second marriage. She does not have a right to ask for separation or Talaq as far as he is giving her rights equally with practical justice.
If the husband is committing wrong or injustice, she can complain with authentic evidence to the Marje' of Taqleed.
Wassalam.
Are Viagra pills permitted to be used during sexual activity?
Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi

Viagra pills or any other medicine are allowed to be used as far as it does not have major harm on your health and it does not contain any non Halal ingredient.

Wassalam.
What should I do if my husband’s sexual performance has been lacking for over four years, causing me to feel resentful, frustrated, and miserable?
Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi

1. This is a critical matter which should be dealt with with top care and secrecy. If this matter is dealt with in a wrong way, it can harm your relationship with your husband and it can lead to bigger problems.

2. You must be be careful in talking about this matter with your husband and avoid disclosing it to any one side even from your near relatives who know your husband.

4. Be frank with your husband in talking about this matter and make him think that you need his advice and never compliant against him.

5. Both of you need to discuss the possible reasons to try to avoid its factors.

6. You both can seek medical advise to both of you as partner in the matter.

7. You should be content with whatever is oossible along with your efforts to imporove.

Wassalam.
Is it considered allowed if pre-cum enters the mouth during oral sex?
Zaid Alsalami

Bismihi ta'āla

In shar'i terminology, the fluid that excretes from sexual arousal is called madhi, and it is tahir. Only semen is considered najis. 

And Allah knows best