What should I do if my husband’s sexual performance has been lacking for over four years, causing me to feel resentful, frustrated, and miserable?
1. This is a critical matter which should be dealt with with top care and secrecy. If this matter is dealt with in a wrong way, it can harm your relationship with your husband and it can lead to bigger problems.
2. You must be be careful in talking about this matter with your husband and avoid disclosing it to any one side even from your near relatives who know your husband.
4. Be frank with your husband in talking about this matter and make him think that you need his advice and never compliant against him.
5. Both of you need to discuss the possible reasons to try to avoid its factors.
6. You both can seek medical advise to both of you as partner in the matter.
7. You should be content with whatever is oossible along with your efforts to imporove.
Wassalam.