Dowry

A dowry is a transfer of parental property, gifts, or money at the marriage of a daughter. Dowry contrasts with the related concepts of bride price and dower. While bride price or bride service is a payment by the groom or his family to the bride's parents, dowry is the wealth transferred from the bride's family to the groom or his family, ostensibly for the bride.

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Dowry . Marriage . Doubt . Nikah

If a scholar recites the formula of marriage without mentioning the dowry or performing the consent exchange, causing confusion for the couple, is it necessary for them to recite it again to resolve their uncertainty?

Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 1 year ago

Yes they can recite the marriage formula properly to resolve uncertainty.

This can be done as a precaution and not as an obligatory act.

Wassalam.

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Wife . Mut'a (Temporary marriage) . Dowry

Is a temporary marriage still valid if the husband did not actually fulfill the condition of giving the wife her dowry due to her indifference towards receiving it?

Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 2 years ago

Bismihi ta'ala

If the required conditions were met at the time of the reciting of the contract, then it would be valid, and it is permissible for the female to wave her right to receive the agreed upon mahr. She is able to forfeit it after the contract, if she wants to.

And Allah knows best

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Marriage . Dowry . Wife

In a marriage, when does the dowry have to be paid? Can it be given a few months after being married to your wife or does it need to be given on the day of the Nikah?

Bismihi ta'ala

Firstly, we should refrain from using the word dowry, because in English it is a payment given by the bride to her husband.

Whereas, in Islam, it is from the groom to the bride, and not a payment, but a token and sign of loyalty and truthfulness, which is why in the Quran and Sunnah it is called "Sidāq".

We also call it Mahr, and in English, we can call it bridal-gift or nuptial-gift.

Once the marriage contract (nikah / 'aqd shar'i) is done, it becomes the husband's duty to fulfill the contract and what he comitted to. This obligation depends on the agreement the bride and groom had. Was there a clause in the contract, like dividing the mahr into "muqaddam" or immediate, and "mu`akhar", which is the deferred amount.

Is the husband capable of giving it immediately. Has the wife demanded it? Can the husband give it in installments. These are different scenarios that could occur, so it would depend on the circumstance.

Some cultures also have it to be given on the day of the nikah as well.

So, from a shar'i perspective, it becomes wajib upon the husband to give the mahr that he agreed on, whenever it is demanded by the wife, whenever he is able to, and according to whatever agreement they had.

And Allah knows best

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Woman . Marriage . Dowry . Mut'a (Temporary marriage)

If I marry a Muslim woman in a temporary marriage and then marry that same woman in a permanent marriage, do I need to give her the dowry twice for both the temporary and the permanent marriage?

Yes if course. Every marriage agreements must have a dowry. The temporary marriage has its dowry and the permanent marriage has its dowry as well.

Wassalam.

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Surah . Marriage . Qur'an . Dowry

I have heard that it is possible to ask for a Quran Surah in Mehar for marriage. Is that correct and, if so, what are its benefits?

Bismihi ta'ala

In an Islamic marriage contract, it is necessary to stipulate a nuptial gift, or what we call sidāq or mahr, and it can be anything that has a value, like teaching to recite Quran, or a copy of a Quran, etc.

There are many benefits of having such a mahr and not demanding high mahr. There is a statement from the holy Prophet (s.a.w.) that says the best of the women of my ummah is she with the less mahr.

Mahr is not a sign of love, or a security bond, but only a gesture and token of truthfullness, and anything spiritual will of course carry many benefits in this dunya and in akhirah.

With prayers for your success.

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Marriage . Dowry . Qur'anic Verse

How is the Quranic verse 2:236 understood by Shia scholars where it mentions the possibility of a marriage without a settled dowry? Are there any valid marriage vows in the Twelver School where the dowry is not mentioned?

Sayyed Muhammad Husaini Ragheb, Sayyed Muhammad Husaini Ragheb has a BA in Law from Guilan University, Iran and has also undertaken Hawzah studies in Qom. He used to be a Cultural Affairs director of Ethics Group of Al-Mustafa... Answer updated 5 years ago

Salaamun Alaikum
It is possible that they pronounce the permanent marriage contract without mentioning the dowry i.e Mahr, so they can decide on what it will be with a mutual consent after the marriage.
But if the intercourse takes place before determining the dowry, the woman will be eligible to ask for the Mahrul Mesl i.e. a dowry which is usually given to this type of girl with these characteristics and family and social position.

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Mahr . Dowry

Why is Mahr or dowry still necessary when nowadays both genders can get equal opportunities in their jobs?

Amina Inloes, Amina Inloes is originally from the US and has a PhD in Islamic Studies from the University of Exeter on Shi'a hadith. She is the program leader for the MA Islamic Studies program at the... Answered 5 years ago

The short answer is, it is prescribed by Quran and hadith.

A longer answer: In my view, part of the wisdom is that... sadly, the human being values what they pay for. Most people who pay $100 for a book will read it. Whereas most people who download books for free will never read them at all. A person who pays $1000 for a book will memorize every word in it!

While I do not want to suggest that a female is like a product that a man buys, it seems that, for some men, making a financial commitment towards a marriage is a way of demonstrating their overall commitment to and investment in it, and commitment is one of the necessary ingredients for a lasting marriage. (Whether that financial commitment be made in the way of mahr, gifts, money towards a home, paying towards the wedding, etc)

I am not saying all men are like this, it just seems to be part of how some people's minds operate. Of course two people can be genuinely committed to a marraige even if neither of them has anything financial to contribute.

Of course mahrs should be moderate and not extravagant and should be according to one's capability.

Also in reality although there are theoretically equal opportunities for men and women, women are still more disadvantaged and paid less in the workplace, and are in more vulnerable situations when they have children, especially if they end up as single mothers. So anything that can help add some "insurance" to the woman's situation is not a bad thing.

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Woman . Dowry

Is it permissible for a woman to not take her dowry from her future husband because she is rich and successful?

Yes it is permissible for her to gift her right , whether fully or partly, to her husband. She will get great reward for such gift to her husband and that amount will be a blessed money for the husband.( Sura 4, verse 4).

Wassalam.

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Marriage . Husband . Divorce . Dowry

Is it obligatory prior to marriage to have a deferred dowry agreed? Or can you have an upfront dowry and not something that becomes due just in the case of a husband initiating divorce?

Dowry is the right of the woman in marriage. She has the right to ask for her dowry upfront or keep part of it for later. There is no condition at all to keep a deferred dowry if the woman does not want to defer it.

Wassalam.