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How does one deal with a husband who gets angry over the smallest things and, instead of communicating his frustrations in a mature manner, screams and shouts and swears?
Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi

Patience and tolerance. This is the way.

This unfortunate situation is existing in thousands of cases and it causes lot of sufferings but we should never loose the hope.

There are many wise ways to handle it including:

1. Avoiding any behavior  or words which can instigate or trigger his anger.

2. Being cool when he is angry to gradually cool him down. 

3. Never be angry reacting to his anger. Your anger will make his anger more.

4. Try to politely explain to him the situation as much is he can understand.

5. Do not involve others unless it becomes out of control, then only those who have effect on him.

​​​​​​​Wassalam.
If a husband divorces his wife 4 times are these divorces valid because of the mindset of anger and hurt that the husband was experiencing when saying the divorces?
Sayyed Muhammad Husaini Ragheb

Salaam
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If a husband divorces his wife 4 times are these divorces valid because of the mindset of anger and hurt that the husband was experiencing when saying the divorces?
Abolfazl Sabouri

The divorce is not valid because of the anger. 

Moreover, according to some jurisprudence (Jafari) these 3 or 4 divorce should be in different times or sessions . In one session it is considered one divorce even if he says "I divorced you 3 times".