How does one deal with a husband who gets angry over the smallest things and, instead of communicating his frustrations in a mature manner, screams and shouts and swears?
How does one deal with a husband who gets angry over the smallest things and, instead of communicating his frustrations in a mature manner, screams and shouts and swears?
Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 6 years ago
Patience and tolerance. This is the way.
This unfortunate situation is existing in thousands of cases and it causes lot of sufferings but we should never loose the hope.
There are many wise ways to handle it including:
1. Avoiding any behavior or words which can instigate or trigger his anger.
2. Being cool when he is angry to gradually cool him down.
3. Never be angry reacting to his anger. Your anger will make his anger more.
4. Try to politely explain to him the situation as much is he can understand.
5. Do not involve others unless it becomes out of control, then only those who have effect on him.
Wassalam.