Zaid Alsalami

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Alhamdulillah, all our esteemed Maraji' have official websites and easy channels of commication. Just make sure they are "official". Regarding scenarios or questions you might not find in his Tawdhih al-Masa`el, or Risalah 'Amaliyah, their websites usually have frequently asked questions, and you can also email, ring, or visit the office in person, or ask the Marja's wakeel.

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Yes, it is considered permissible, based on the interests of society and law, as long as it is done legally.

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https://www.islamquest.net/en/archive/fa1813

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Any sinful act can be forgiven by Allah ta'ala, as long as the tawbah is sincere, the act is abandoned, and it is between them and Allah ta'ala. This last condition means that there is no due right to be returned back to an individual.

What the individual did must repent, and work towards purifying themselves, and surely gain God's forgiveness in this world and the Hereafter.

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The common view among our esteeemed scholars is that such an act is highly detestable (very makruh) and should not be performed. Some consider it haram, and some precautionary haram. It is indeed something that believers should refrain from, and expressing discomfort is irrelevant as well. 

You must refer to your Marja' taqleed for his specific view. 

And Allah knows best.

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Yes, it would be permissible to do so, to retrieve your haq. 

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No, the husband does not need to wait.

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No, you are not obliged to share details about this with anyone, and it is none of anyone's concern as to how much you earn. 

A parent might be concerned about your spending, or if you are being paid fairly, or something like that, so communication on that level is beneficial, and you should not be that sensitive as well.

And Allah knows best.

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To remove your doubt, see a doctor specialised in circumcision, to see whether or not the procedure was done correctly. 

You can either show him a picture of your private part, or allow him to see, enough for him to assess. 

And Allah knows best

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If he divorced while she was pure, but had sex with her as well during that time, prior to reciting the divorce, or after, the divorce would not have been valid. 

Divorce needs to take place after a wife has her cycle, and is pure (fi tuhr ghayr muwaqa'ah).

And Allah knows best.

Bismihi ta'ala

No, she cannot marry that man at all, and under any circumstance.

Of course, there is a slight difference of opinion among our esteemed jurists, so it is best for her to also confirm the fatwa of her Marja' taqleed.

And Allah knows best

Bismihi ta'ala

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