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Admirable Qualities Of Wives

Tradition n. 313

قالَ رَسُولُ الله صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم:

ما مِنِ ام رَأَةٍ تَس قِي زَوجَها شَربَةً مِن مـاءٍ اِلاّ كانَ خَيرًا لَها مِن عِبادَة سَنَةِ صِيامِ نَهارِها وَ قِيامِ لَيلِها.

The Holy Prophet (S) said: “There is no (believing) woman who gives her husband a glass of water but it will be rewarded her better than the worship of one year during which she fasts on days and keeps vigil during the nights.”

Wasa’il ash-Shi’a, vol. 20, p. 172

Tradition n. 314

قالَ رَسُولُ الله صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم:

... وَ عليها أَن تَطِيبَ بِأَطيَـبِ طِيبِها وَ تَل بَـسَ بِأَحسَنِ ثِيابِها وَ تَزَيَّنَ بِأَحسَنِ زينَتِها وَ تَعرِضَ نَفسَها عليه غُد وَةً وَ عَشِيَّةً.

The Holy Prophet (S) said: “It is to a woman to perfume herself with her best fragrances, wear her best clothes, and ornament herself with her best ornamentation in order to present herself available to her husband whether it is day or night.”

Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 508

Tradition n. 315

قالَ الإمامُ اَميرُالمُؤمِنينَ عَلِيٌّ عليه السلام :

جِهادُ المَرأَةِ حُسنُ التَّبَعُّلِ.

Imam Amir al-Mu’minin ‘Ali (‘a) said: “The Jihad (Fighting in the way of Allah) of a woman is to afford pleasant company to her husband.”

Nahjul-Balagha, saying No. 494

Tradition n. 316

عَن اَبي جَعفَرٍ عليه السلام قالَ: قالَ رَسُولُ الله صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم: قالَ اللهُ عَزَّ وَجلَّ إذا أَرَدتُ أَن أَج مَعَ لِلمُسلِـمِ خَيرَ الدّنيا وَ الآخِـرَةِ، جَعَل تُ لَهُ قَل بًا خاشِعاً، وَ لِسانًا ذاكِـرً، وَ جَسَـدًا عَلَى البَـلاءِ صابِراً، وَ زَوجَةً مُؤمِنةً تَسُرُّهُ إذا نَظَرَ اِلَيها وَ تَحفَظُـهُ إذا غابَ عَنها في نَفسِها وَ مالِهِ.

The Holy Prophet (S) said: “Allah, Almighty and Glorious, has said: 'Had I willed to gather the good of this world and the next for a Muslim believer, I would set for the one a humble heart, a thankful tongue, and a body patient in afflictions. (To a man I would give) a pious wife whom when he looks at, he is delighted and who (she) protects herself and his properties for him when he is away from her.”

Usul al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 327

Tradition n. 317

قالَ الإمامُ الصّادِقُ عليه السلام :

مَلعُونَةٌ مَلعُونَةٌ اِمرَأةٌ تُؤ ذِي زَوجَها وَ تَغُمُّـهُ وَ سَعِيـدَةٌ سَعِيدَةٌ اِمرَأَةٌ تُكرِمُ زَوجَها وَلا تُؤ ذِيهِ وَ تُطِيعُهُ فِي جَمِيعِ اَحوالِهِ.

Imam as-Sadiq (‘a) said: “Intensively is cursed (by Allah) the woman who hurts her husband and makes him grievous, but intensively is prosperous the woman who respects her husband and does not hurt him while she does obey him in all conditions.”

Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 252

Tradition n. 318

قالَ رَسُولُ الله صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم:

اِنَّ مِن خَيرِ نِسائِكُم اَلوَلوُدَ الوَدُودَ اَلسَّتيرةَ العَفيفةَ اَلعَزِيـزةَ فِي اَهلِها اَلذليلَةَ مَعَ بَعلِها اَلمُتَبَرِّجَةَ مِن زَوجِها اَلحَصانَ عَن غَيرِه الَّتي تَسمَعُ قَولَهُ وَ تُطيعُ اَمرَهُ وَ إذا خَلابِها بَذَلَـت لَهُ ما أَرادَ مِنها، وَلَم تَبَذَّل كَتَبََّذُّلِ الرَّجُلِ.

The Holy Prophet (S) said: “Verily your best woman is she who is fertile, affectionate, keeps secrets, and is pious. She obeys her husband and is honourably dear among her kinsmen. When she is with her husband, she reveals her ornaments but conceals it from anyone other than him. She hearkens to his speech and obeys his commands. When she is in private, she dresses herself beautifully and is eager to offer him generously whatever he wants from her. She is usually ornamented (for him) and is not plain as men are.”

Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 235

Tradition n. 319

قالَ رَسُولُ الله صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم:

مِن سَعادَة المَر ءِ المُسلِمِ اَلزَّوجَةُ الصّالِحَةُ وَالمَسكَنُ الواسِـعُ وَالمَركَبُ ال هَنِيءُ وَالوَلَدُ الصّالِحُ.

The Holy Prophet (S) said: “From the prosperity of a Muslim man is that he has a pious wife, a large (comfortable) house, a pleasant mount, and a righteous child.”

Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 104, p. 98

Tradition n. 320

قالَ رَسُولُ الله صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم:

جِهادُ المَرأَةِ حُس نُ التَّبَعُّلِ وَ اَعظَمُ النّاسِ حَقّاً عليها زَوجُها.

The Holy Prophet (S) said: “The Jihad (Fighting in the way of Allah) of a woman is to afford pleasant company to her husband and the right of her husband over her is the greatest right of all people over her.”

Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 103, p. 256