If my parents want me to become a doctor, but I am passionate about computer science and their lack of support is causing me distress, should I still follow their wishes despite not wanting to pursue medicine?
If my parents want me to become a doctor, but I am passionate about computer science and their lack of support is causing me distress, should I still follow their wishes despite not wanting to pursue medicine?
Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 2 years ago
Bismihi ta'ala
In lot of cases, parents have certain standards and expectations for their children, in which at times are different to the child, and I strongly believe parents should support their son/daughter in the field they are passionate in and interested in pursuing, and should encourage, as long as it is halal, honourable and ambitious.
If it is causing you distress, and you do not think you can pursue it, then be frank with them, and try to convince them of your area of interest. In shaa Allah they will understand you and support you.
The important thing is you always try to make yourself and your family proud, in being a high achiever.
With prayers for your success