Modesty of women comes from their human nature as females with specific characteristics which Allah The Glorious Has Created in them for the benefit of human life, such characteristics are different from the characteristics of males. Modesty of men also comes from their human nature as males. Since the characteristics of males are not typically same as the characteristics of female, the modesty norms are not the same. Islamic rules ask females to abide to their standards of modesty while asks males to abide to their standards if modesty.
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