How can I change my sexual orientation if I have been attracted to the same gender in a feminine way since my adolescence, causing mental and emotional distress, and a lack of attraction towards the opposite gender?
If you sincerely decide to normalize your sexual orientation, you will be able to do that with help of Allah. It depends on you and your firm decisions. There is a narration from Imam Al-Sadiq (AS): Human being will never be weak to ache if what his strong will wants.
'It is good to remember the sexual orientation of all the prophets and Imams and their followers and terrible end of those who followed wrong sexual desires as we read in Quran.
'It might be also useful to consult psychiatrists in some cases.
'You also need to avoid mixing with persons who have wrong sexual orientations.
'Wassalam.