What steps should I take to seek forgiveness for the times when I made false statements, either by taking Qasam or saying wAllah, out of embarrassment or to maintain a friendship?
Making a False statement by Qasam or oath or saying Wallah, is a major sin. It is called in the Hadeeth ( Al-Yameen al-Faajirah Al-Ghamoos) (The sinful oath which immerses the liar in the fire).
Seeking forgiveness needs: 1. Giving back the right of any one who was been wronged by this false statements and making him pardon you from his heart.
2. Repenting and feeling sad for what you committed.
3. Firm decision not to do it again.
4. Seeking forgiveness from Allah (SWT) day and night.
Wassalam.