After nine years of marriage and two children, my wife and I have faced numerous arguments and even physical confrontations. Despite previous attempts to resolve our issues, I no longer have any feelings for her. What should I do next?
After nine years of marriage and two children, my wife and I have faced numerous arguments and even physical confrontations. Despite previous attempts to resolve our issues, I no longer have any feelings for her. What should I do next?
Zaid Alsalami, Shaykh Dr Zaid Alsalami is an Iraqi born scholar, raised in Australia. He obtained a BA from Al-Mustafa University, Qom, and an MA from the Islamic College in London. He also obtained a PhD from... Answered 11 months ago
Bismihi ta'āla
Involve parents, elders, or your local scholar qualified for this to intervene. Have a meeting, try to find ways of reconciling. Try to exhort all effort in amending the relationship, so that if your only choice is divorce, you will do so consciously and responsibly.
Please watch this, as it will hopefully benefit you in making your decision the right way.
https://youtu.be/vRlB_LkIuVI?si=T7oAoMRv3aFvjHXJ
And Allah knows best