I feel resentment towards my in-laws due to their selfishness and pressure to do things against my will. I am now mirroring their behavior. How can I address this situation and improve my feelings and actions?
I feel resentment towards my in-laws due to their selfishness and pressure to do things against my will. I am now mirroring their behavior. How can I address this situation and improve my feelings and actions?
Sayyed Mohammad Al-Musawi, Sayyed Mohammad al-Musawi is originally from Iraq and heads up the World Ahlul Bayt Islamic League in London. Other than being involved in various humanitarian projects, he frequently responds to... Answered 9 months ago
It is not in the teachings of Quran, the Prophet (SAWA) and Ahlul Bayt (AS) to mirror bad behavior. We are been advised to do good always even when are been wronged.
'The best way to make your in-laws treat you in a better way is to do more good and avoid doubting their intentions. Tolerate and be patient and try to avoid bed thoughts, your life will be better. The Prophet Muhammad (SAWA) ordered his followers to do good even to those who did wrong to you وأحسِن إلى مَن أساء إلَيك
Wassalam.