Is it right for me to confront my father about hurting my mother, knowing it may upset him? His manipulative behavior and lack of support are impacting my mental health, and I feel anxious watching my mother suffer emotionally while he disrespects her.
You must always respect your parents no matter how they behave and you must avoid any act or word which can hurt their feelings. Even if ur father is misbehaving with ur mother u are not to confront him as it can hurt his feelings and cause disrespect to him. You can support your mother emotionally with out disrespecting your father.
Wassalam.