If I feel that my mother-in-law and sisters-in-law are causing me problems then am I allowed to discuss this with my husband with the intention of obtaining his counsel or does this count as Gheebah?
If I feel that my mother-in-law and sisters-in-law are causing me problems then am I allowed to discuss this with my husband with the intention of obtaining his counsel or does this count as Gheebah?
Seyed Ali Shobayri, Seyed Ali Shobayri is of mixed Iranian and Scottish descent who found the path of the Ahlul Bayt (a) by his own research. He holds a BA in Islamic Studies from Middlesex University through the... Answered 5 years ago
Bismillah,
Asalamu Alaykom,
If there are genuine problems with your in-laws then you can discuss this with your husband with the intention of finding a solution. He may be able to intermediate and speak to those in-laws to find a common ground or way to reconcile differences. By not discussing these issues it can become worse, so it is good you are thinking to do so.
Just make sure that when you discuss these issues, it doesn't exceed the limits of the necessary matters. For example if one would starts insulting them then it could lead to ghiybah or mention unrelated matters
May Allah grant you success