Kindness To Parents
Tradition n. 227
قالَ رَسُولُ الله صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم:
رِضَى الله في رِضَى الوالِدَينِ وَ سَخَطُهُ في سَخَطِهِم.
The Holy Prophet (S) said: “The pleasure of Allah lies in the pleasure of one's parents (in the case that it is right), and His wrath lies in their wrath.”
Mustadrak al-Wasa’il ash-Shi’a, vol. 15, p. 176
Tradition n. 228
قالَ الإمامُ الصّادِقُ عليه السلام :
اَفضَلُ الأعمـالِ: اَلصَّلاة لِوَقتِها وَ بِرُّ الوالِدَينِ وَالجِهادُ في سَبِيلِ الله.
Imam as-Sadiq (‘a) said: “The best deeds are: punctual prayer, kindness to parents, and contributing to the Holy War (against the pagans) in the path of Allah.”
Bihar al-Anwar, vol. 74, p. 85
Tradition n. 229
عَنِ الصّادِقِ عليه السلام قالَ:
مَن أَحَبَّ أَن يُخَفِّفَ اللّهُ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ عَنهُ سَكَراتِ المَوتِ فَليَكُن لِقَرابَتهِ وَصولاً وَ بِوالِدَيهِ بارًّا فَإذا كانَ كَذلك هَوَّنَ اللّه عليه سَكَراتِ المَوتِ وَلَم يُصِبهُ في حَياتِهِ فَقرٌ اَبَدًا.
Imam as-Sadiq (‘a) said: “He who wishes Allah, Almighty and Glorious, to lighten the agonies of death, he should have regard for his kinship, and treat his parents with goodness. Then, when a person does so, Allah will make the agonies of death easy for him and he will not be stricken by poverty in his life at all.”
Safinat al-Bihar, vol. 2, p. 553
Tradition n. 230
قالَ الإمامُ الصَّادِقُ عليه السلام :
مَن نَظَرَ إِلى أَبَوَيهِ نَظَرَ ماقِتٍ وَ هُما ظالِمانِ لَهُ لَم يَقبَلِ اللّه لَهُ صَلاةً.
Imam as-Sadiq (‘a) said: “He who glares at his parents with wrathful eyes, although they have been unjust to him, Allah will not accept his prayers (unless he repents).”
Usul al-Kafi, vol. 2, p. 349
Tradition n. 231
قالَ الإمامُ الصّادِقُ عليه السلام :
بَرُّوا آباءَكُـم يَبَرَّكُـم اَبناؤُكُـم وَ عِفُّـوا عَـن نِساءِ النّاسِ تَعِـفَّ نِساؤُكُم.
Imam as-Sadiq (‘a) said: “Do treat kindly your parents so that your children do the same to you; and be pious unto the wives of people so that your wives remain pious.”
Al-Kafi, vol. 5, p. 554
Tradition n. 232
عَن أَبِى عَبدِالله عليه السلام قالَ: جاءَ رَجُلٌ وَ سَأَلَ النَّبِيّ صلی الله عليه و آله و سلم عَن بِرِّ الوالِدَينِ فَقالَ: اِبرِر اُمَّكَ اِبرِر اُمَّكَ اِبرِر اُمَّكَ، اِبرِر أباكَ اِبرِر أباكَ اِبرِر أباكَ، وَ بَدَأَ بِالأُمِّ قَبلَ الأبِ.
Imam as-Sadiq (‘a) said: “Once a person came to the Prophet (S) and asked him about good treatment to parents. Then, he (S) said 'Treat kindly your mother, treat kindly your mother, and treat kindly your mother; be kind to your father, be kind to your father, and be kind to your father but begin (that kindness) with your mother before your father'.”
Al-Kafi, vol. 2, p. 162